The Difference a Week Makes

A lot has happened over the course of the past week, much of it sparking a rather challenging internal debate. It all began last week, early Tuesday morning. I received an email from someone I had recently been in touch with, someone I knew from working at The Collaborative. He wanted to set up a call for later in the morning to discuss a possible job opportunity, so before lunchtime my world was tipped on it's axis.

That conversation sparked such a mix of emotions I ended up with my first migraine in over 6 weeks! Should I return to work? What about how wonderful staying home with Oliver has been? Is it better to use my talents in the workplace or focus them at home? What might happen to the work Oliver and I have been doing if I go back to working outside the home? Who is going to clean the house, run the errands, cook the meals, etc.? WHAT IF I CAN'T DO WHAT IS ASKED OF ME? 

Turmoil. Turmoil that millions of mothers have faced, often with no "right" or "wrong" answer. At the same time, how wonderful it felt to be pursued! To have an experienced and successful businessman believe I am the right person to step in at the ground level of a start up and help it grow. After 5 months of working for a 3 then 4 year old, often being under appreciated for my efforts, to have this kind of professional attention is flattering, to say the least.

On Friday we had a second call, then set up a meeting with the two individuals currently working full time for the company. Significant prayers were sent up for God's direction, His peace or His closing the door on this opportunity. The internal turmoil continued, and when I headed off for the Tuesday morning meeting I was just desperately clinging to the hope that God would show the way.

Lo and behold, the meeting was comfortable, even fun. I left there at 11:30 and received an offer of employment at 12:30.

I accepted and begin Monday!

I begin as a contractor for about 20ish hours a week -- two days in the office and some working from home. A nice way to transition myself and the family into my return to work. The ultimate goal is to be a full time employee and to grow my role as the company grows. I've worked for small companies for a long time, but this will be my first adventure in the purely start up world. 

Oliver burst into tears when I shared the news with him, but he did celebrate with me and enjoyed a little frozen yogurt. So, here's to changes and how life can unexpectedly go in unimaginable directions! Praise God for opening doors, and sending continued prayers for His help during this time of transition. I have a feeling it will be much more challenging for me than when I returned to work right after Oliver came home.

A Busy & Fun October

It has been a very busy month -- lots of fun family time, a trip to St. Louis and (finally) the big night...Halloween. Let's go in reverse:

HALLOWEEN

Oliver has been so very excited for Halloween. For more than a month we have been doing crafts, decorating the house, talking about costumes and trick-or-treating, and watching Halloween themed things on TV. He is always asking to bring home spooky things, keep saying that we didn't have enough decorations around the house, and has been counting down the days until the special night. With this we have also seen Oliver struggle with lots of nightmares, trouble sleeping, and a general fear of all things. It's been a tough balance this past month! We had a great night, but I have to admit I'm pretty happy to move on to more upbeat holidays.

We carved two pumpkins this year. Oliver pick both of the patterns, which Tony did a great job executing! The one on the right was particularly hard and I was impressed with his talents using the tiny pumpkin carving set. 

Halloween began at 5:45 am for us -- a certain four year old was ready for the big day and couldn't sleep another wink! After dinner, Tony stayed home to hand out candy while Oliver and I went trick-or-treating with one of the neighbors. He went as a fireman that had fire engine tattoos on both of his cheeks. I went as a black cat. The boys did great and made it for almost an hour! He had a fantastic time and enjoyed diving into his loot once we were home. He also had fun handing out candy to the later trick-or-treaters. 

Can you tell he's excited!?

ANOTHER DAY OF BEING CUTE

Just A super cute photo of all of her hanging out one day recently! Yes me to take this picture of him with his bear.

I love that he uses his snowman blanket year round too!

CRAFTS

Oliver has been more into crafts lately, so I began saving toilet paper rolls. I thought we'd find a fun Thanksgiving craft, something cute, to make together. Then he came to me "with a great idea. Let's make a bazooka!" Now, I had no idea how to make a bazooka. I couldn't even picture it in my mind. Lucky for me, he knew exactly how we needed to make it! Several toilet paper rolls and duct tape created just what he was wanting...his first homemade bazooka. Here is the final result:

Once it was made we got to play army!

ST. LOUIS

The three of us spent a weekend in St. Louis with my family. It was another busy trip to the 'Lou, and lots of fun was had by all. Oliver begged to go back to the Magic House and this time Tony got to come along. Here are a few shots from our trip to the Magic House:

Yes, this is the President. I'd like to order  pizza.

The Supreme Court Judge singing Jesus Loves Me into a live microphone. Pretty funny!

Scooping up ice cream with PawPaw

We also went to Boo at the Zoo. We went last year as well...maybe this will become a family tradition!

Meow!

Oh no, the Headless Horseman!

It has been a great month, though so very busy. I'm looking forward to things slowing down just a tad in the next few weeks...and perhaps getting more time to blog. Enjoy November!

More Family Fun

We have been blessed with an absolutely beautiful fall weekend! Today we took advantage and enjoyed two fun outdoor adventures. Our first was a visit to the Brooklyn Park Fire Station Open House.Oliver and I went last year and had a blast. This year he wasn't quite as into the festivities, but yet he still had a very good time. We even got to see a demonstration on how the Fire Department rescues someone trapped in a car -- they used both the spreaders (jaws of life) and the cutters. It was pretty interesting to see how easy they made it look...and I feel fortunate that I've not had the need to see their efforts up close and personal. 

One of Oliver's favorite things to do at these kinds of functions: climb around the trucks and ambulances. 

It might be just a little bit before he can reach the pedals!

He asked to have his picture taken but was too busy eating a sugar cookie to stop and pose!

After the open house we headed to the big corn maze that is about 7 minutes from our house. Tony and I have never been, so it was a fun "first" for all of us. We took on the challenge of the corn maze (thankful for the map) and had a great time! Tony was our fearless leader while Oliver helped to mark our trail. Along the way there were 20 trivia questions for us to find and answer, keeping us moving throughout the maze. 

Oliver wanted to take a picture of the corn -- here is his photo.

In addition to the corn maze, the corn pit was a big hit! Tony bravely jumped in to play with Oliver and they took turns burying each other. They had a blast....and I had a few minutes of terrific entertainment.

Tony jumped into the corn pit with Oliver and they had fun burying each other!

Oliver was very sweet and tender with the little bunny in the petting zoo. I love his tender side! I love his silly side, too...

Bunny time

Riding a tricycle in a clearing of the corn.

After the full afternoon we stopped for dinner before returning home. Oliver fell asleep in the car at 6:10 and stayed asleep once we got home. We now having a dirty, non-tooth brushed boy sawing logs and we are hoping he is able to sleep through the night. Tomorrow should be another beautiful day for us to enjoy!

The Perfect Fall Weekend

Hooray for Fall! Our house is buzzing with all things Fall....especially all things Halloween related (thanks to a very eager four year old!). In fact, Oliver and I have spent several hours working on a couple of Halloween crafts while listening to Christmas music (yes, you read that correctly). Oliver requested Christmas music, and I have to say it is kind of fun for this lover of Christmas! I'm trying to embrace Halloween, though.

We have a full Fall weekend, kicking it off with a family dinner Friday night. Saturday found Tony hosting a golf tournament for work, so Oliver and I filled our day with festive fun. We began with a big Halloween craft, released our just-out-of-the-cocoon Monarch Butterfly (amazing!), and then headed to Eidom Farm for their Fall on the Farm gathering. 

Oliver is a big fan of scarecrows and found this one right away on the Farm.

On the farm we learned how a 1900's home looked, what they did for fun and even how they powered their stove with wood fire. We took a hayride around the farm, fed a few animals and played a couple of games. It was a great time!

We were then off to a craft event at Michael's so Oliver could make a glow in the dark Mummy pumpkin, which he named Cookie. In a mommy-fail moment, I thought we should go into the Halloween store to look at costumes...but found lots of freaky and spooky and scary decorations instead. Oliver got pretty scared, so we scooted to Barnes & Noble for a hot chocolate break.

Contemplating life over cocoa

Sunday morning was a big morning for us. Oliver sang in church for the first time! The children were in both services and had been practicing for a few weeks. Oma and Opa came to watch and Oliver even got to wear his tie. While lining up for their first performance I asked him to smile for a quick picture. This is what he gave us:

Goofball! 

After church Tony, Oliver and I headed to an apple orchard some friends had told us about. Now, you may recall that for years I had dreamed of going apple picking with our child. Last year the dream (finally) came true, but I was very sick with what turned out to be the flu. This year we were all healthy, the day was beautiful and we had a great time! Here's a little photo story of our time at the orchard:

Oliver found the pile of hay, falling on it just after this picture was taken.
About 10 minutes later we were down one of the apple rows trying to get all of the hay out of his clothes!

Apple picking...a team sport! So cute.

My two favorite guys.

Oliver insisted on taking this picture. He put the pumpkin up on the hay and everything.

Future farmer?

Of course our child is the one dumping entire buckets of corn on himself! 

I nearly cried at one point out of sheer joy. God has truly blessed our family and I am so thankful. 

Speaking of crying...Friday night I found myself with two sleeping guys and a bit of time. I found a movie on Netflix that I had been wanting to see call "The Drop Box" and decided to watch it. It is a documentary about a pastor, Pastor Lee, who has established a baby box in Seoul to provide birth mothers a safe place to abandon their newborns. While the documentary does not go into great detail about the Special Adoption Law of 2012 (the law that dramatically changed things for us during our process), nor does it address what happens to the abandoned children (they are actually not eligible for adoption because they do not have any way to prove who the child is, what their family heritage is, etc.), it is an amazing story and it is an inspiration. Please consider either learning more or watching the movie. Here's a link to find out more: The Drop Box

I am overdue on other posts (parenting conference and women's retreat), so hopefully there will be more soon. Enjoy the beautiful leaves, crisp weather and all of the fun fall festivities!