Friday, December 27, 2013

Home

We are home!

22 hours of travel with a sick child but we are finally home. Overall the trip went better than we thought it might; not great but not a nightmare either. The flight from Seoul to Dallas takes over 13 hours. Oliver was a handful when awake and refused to play with any toys or play any imaginary games. Luckily he slept for a few hours. I will admit that I had my first mommy meltdown ... Crying included. Nothing like crying into my toddler's shoulder after he hit me and pulled my hair to humble me! Here's a picture of him exploring the remote. 

When we arrived in Dallas Oliver became a US citizen! Once we deplaned we were routed to the non-US citizens line, then escorted into a small office for processing. I guess the paperwork will be mailed to us later, but there was no fanfare and we were on our way. We didn't have much time in Dallas but right before we boarded Tony took this picture:

It filled us with hope for a smooth flight home. Boy were we wrong! It was a very tough trip home. We all survived, though, and luckily no one was in the row in front or behind us. 

When we came home Tony's parents and my friend Becca surprised us with balloons, an It's a Boy sign out front, meals in freezer, gift card, groceries, homemade cookies and a cute display:

Oliver had fun exploring the house and didn't fall asleep until almost 3am. Today he slept most of the day. If he wasn't sick we would have worked harder to keep him awake but poor guy is so tired he just keeps laying down. He's actually already asleep again. Here's one final shot that Tony took tonight:

Right now it's hard to know how many of our issues are related to illness, the transition, grief or just being a toddler. Hopefully over the next few days he starts to feel better and feel more comfortable. That's it for now. We are still laying low with Oliver not feeling well, but can't wait to get his reaction to the large amount of snow we have!!

Wednesday, December 25, 2013

Thankful

Oliver's temp is finally down! And he is still sleeping, something he didn't do much of yesterday with all of his coughing. We are so relieved and grateful. Since he's not up yet we don't know how he's doing otherwise, but the fever breaking is an answer to prayer. 

We've received so many wonderful and sincere offers of help--thank you! I'm not ignoring the offers, just a bit preoccupied with everything here to think too far ahead. Once we get back we will likely take you up on the offers! 

One final note, today Oliver (or rather ChaeHa) becomes a U.S. citizen. So wonderful!

And a photo to close us out (watching The Lion King in korean):

P.S.  A big shout out to our awesome neighbors for plowing our drive. THANKS!


Christmas Day

 Christmas Day is winding down. Unfortunately Oliver is still pretty sick, and now he hates taking his medicine too (so much so he gets himself so worked up he can't hardly keep it down). Ugh. So hard on him ... and on new Mom and Dad. Both our Moms have helped, but it's scary being away from home and unable to really communicate with Oliver.

We are praying for a Christmas miracle that he wakes up fully healthy tomorrow, since we are set to head to the airport at 2:00.  Please pray!

As for Christmas, a few gifts were left for Oliver this morning. He was scared of opening them at first, but with a little help from Tony he warmed up for the last two. 

We also enjoyed a traditional Christmas cake -- Oliver got a little too (it's nearly the only thing he would eat today...yet another "winning " parent move). 

I hope you had a great Christmas! We are going to sneak a bit of packing in and then I need to crash. Hardly any sleep last night because of the poor sick little one. 

Tuesday, December 24, 2013

Low Key Day -- Update

Our low key day in turned into a trip back to the agency to see the doctor. Oliver's temp went up and I couldn't tell if the cough med had a fever reducer, so I was pretty worried. I emailed our local social worker to see if she knew what the cough medicine had or what we should do if he got more sick. She suggested seeing their doctor. With Christmas tomorrow we felt it best to go in. When Tony got back (with larger diapers, a traditional korean Christmas cake and the yummy street food fish) we headed out. 

The doctor says he has a cold with a fever. No ear infection or other worry.  He gave us three medicines (getting these through Dallas Thursday will be interesting. The bottles are handwritten and they didn't have any paperwork to give us!). 

We are back home and the fever has broken. He ate a good meal and has been playing again. And still coughing. :(

Nothing like being sick in a foreign country to scare a new parent!